Oh Danny Boy
Its been a while since I had any ex-husband drama. Sometimes I forget what a fuckhead he is.
ME:
Danny,
I hope you are feeling better. I wanted to get together to talk because I thought it would be easier than trying to type a conversation, but here goes. I read your text message to E last week when she was sick. It bothered me that you told her to tell T to have her "shit" packed. I don't think its appropriate to talk to either of them like that. It also hurt me that you told her to "tell your mother to stop calling me." First of all, I called you to tell you your daughter had strep throat, which is important. Secondly, I need you to communicate with me so I am not scrambling when it comes to taking care of them. It is not asking too much for the courtesy of a return call. And thirdly, I always refer to you as "daddy". I think it shows a level of love and respect, and you referring me as "your mother" conveys anger. I would appreciate it if you would temper your language when you speak with the children, and simply call me back when I am trying to reach you.
I also wanted to talk to you about the amount of time you spend with the children. They need and want to see you more. Every other weekend for a day and a half just isn't enough. I think it would be good if you saw them on the weekends you don't
have them. Any night of the weekend, it doesn't matter to me, but they need to see you more not less. Also, as a courtesy to you, I said you could bring them home on Sunday so you didn't have to get up so early to have T to school Monday mornings by 7:25. This does not mean you can bring them home Sunday afternoon. Please do not bring them home before 8:00.
What are your plans for Christmas break? I have no more time off from work and I don't think its a good idea for them to be unsupervised for 2 weeks.
I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. I would appreciate a reply to this email. If you want to talk, just let me know.
S
HIM: (the illiterate fuck he is)
s, I wrote shit to express the fact that i was bad with tori,you expose my daughters to adult words adult action tori related to me the fact she gets ask once a week what boys want to date her.There is no law about visitation there is no law about having to talk to you at all. I call you their mother because thats all you are you cheated on me you robbed me of the profits I had in my home you were the sick unhappy person I do not have to convey to my childern that they have to respect you respect is earn you can't steal that from me or have your father pay for it.the girls medical needs are payed for if i have the time i will get them to there appointments.
ME: (biting my tongue)
What are your intentions for Christmas break?
HIM:
This how the month will go I will have them this weeken I have and event at 530 sunday night, I will get them dr. appointment for them next week and than I will take them. The weekend of the 15th they will be with me,I will bring them home sunday after 6:00pm then the next weekend will be xmass Iwill pick them up on sunday and let them stay with until tuesday morning, I go to st. thomas from tuesday until sunday night I go back to work on the 2nd but would be ok with the girl staying at my place for a few days, your home is there main residance if you want to change that I would glady make the change.I'm a very atentive father when the girl are with they are the main focus you may want to try that it brings calm and focus there are no argue ments no out of control mess though out the house.Have a great day!
ME: (no longer holding my tongue)
Have I told you lately how much I hate you and what a piece of shit I think you are?
ME:
Danny,
I hope you are feeling better. I wanted to get together to talk because I thought it would be easier than trying to type a conversation, but here goes. I read your text message to E last week when she was sick. It bothered me that you told her to tell T to have her "shit" packed. I don't think its appropriate to talk to either of them like that. It also hurt me that you told her to "tell your mother to stop calling me." First of all, I called you to tell you your daughter had strep throat, which is important. Secondly, I need you to communicate with me so I am not scrambling when it comes to taking care of them. It is not asking too much for the courtesy of a return call. And thirdly, I always refer to you as "daddy". I think it shows a level of love and respect, and you referring me as "your mother" conveys anger. I would appreciate it if you would temper your language when you speak with the children, and simply call me back when I am trying to reach you.
I also wanted to talk to you about the amount of time you spend with the children. They need and want to see you more. Every other weekend for a day and a half just isn't enough. I think it would be good if you saw them on the weekends you don't
have them. Any night of the weekend, it doesn't matter to me, but they need to see you more not less. Also, as a courtesy to you, I said you could bring them home on Sunday so you didn't have to get up so early to have T to school Monday mornings by 7:25. This does not mean you can bring them home Sunday afternoon. Please do not bring them home before 8:00.
What are your plans for Christmas break? I have no more time off from work and I don't think its a good idea for them to be unsupervised for 2 weeks.
I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. I would appreciate a reply to this email. If you want to talk, just let me know.
S
HIM: (the illiterate fuck he is)
s, I wrote shit to express the fact that i was bad with tori,you expose my daughters to adult words adult action tori related to me the fact she gets ask once a week what boys want to date her.There is no law about visitation there is no law about having to talk to you at all. I call you their mother because thats all you are you cheated on me you robbed me of the profits I had in my home you were the sick unhappy person I do not have to convey to my childern that they have to respect you respect is earn you can't steal that from me or have your father pay for it.the girls medical needs are payed for if i have the time i will get them to there appointments.
ME: (biting my tongue)
What are your intentions for Christmas break?
HIM:
This how the month will go I will have them this weeken I have and event at 530 sunday night, I will get them dr. appointment for them next week and than I will take them. The weekend of the 15th they will be with me,I will bring them home sunday after 6:00pm then the next weekend will be xmass Iwill pick them up on sunday and let them stay with until tuesday morning, I go to st. thomas from tuesday until sunday night I go back to work on the 2nd but would be ok with the girl staying at my place for a few days, your home is there main residance if you want to change that I would glady make the change.I'm a very atentive father when the girl are with they are the main focus you may want to try that it brings calm and focus there are no argue ments no out of control mess though out the house.Have a great day!
ME: (no longer holding my tongue)
Have I told you lately how much I hate you and what a piece of shit I think you are?
posted by Eatapeach | 10:09 AM
2 Comments:
dang woman... you were married to this mess?
yup...
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